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Asking for advice on cleavage, plunges & EM

Howdie guys!

I am looking for a bra that will give me cleavage, more specifically of the butt crack variety. My 32G-ish boobs are very wide set (3 fingers in between, easy), slightly splayed, evenly full, moderately projected, and short rooted, so I know this is going to be a bit of a challenge, which is why I am asking for some advice.

I'm not looking for porn star insanity (see the last option here: https://obsessedwithbreasts.wordpress.com/2012/12/05/cleavage-concerns/), but I do need something that will give me enough cleavage for under a couple of deep V neck dresses (let's say a step up from the "soft hills cleavage" in the linked post).

So far, I have found several bras that fit well, most of which are half cup styles that give me nice, but subtle cake on a plate cleavage (Freya Patsy & Marvel). These bras tend to push my boobs up and towards my body, but not inwards AT ALL, so no butt cleavage there.

I recently bought a Cleo Minnie & Marcie, which do manage to push my wide set boobs to the middle, and out from my body (a more projected shape). However, these balcony styles have quite high gores, and do not really give me real cleavage either.

For the type of cleavage I'm looking for I would need my boobs to be pushed in and up up UP. So, after some reading around, I see that plunges and push up bras should do the trick, but where do I start?

Are there even any real push up bras in my size range? I never see anything advertised as such.

I've tried some Freya decos (spotlight & vibe) which looked totally weird on me (evidence: http://www.bratabase.com/troubleshoot/dluav/). However, I do often get the deco Honey moulded and strapless as "other bras that will fit" suggestions when I enter bras that fit me. Is there really a big difference between the different Deco styles? They all look so similar.

I see lot's of happy EM fans here raving about the lift and boost they get from the PL style. But is this a style that would work on my boobs, seeing that I'm not narrow & projected like most Ewa lovers? Is there perhaps a fellow wide set lady out there who's had success with this style?

And how often does she add a new style? The styles available on her site right now are not really basic enough for me, I would prefer something like the Onyx Pl. Is it worth waiting around?

Are there other styles or brands you would recommend?



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13 comments

  • I think you actually are average-to-narrow, and quite projected. You'd probably get along well with EM bras, and since her bras have room for "cookies" you can use those for some extra push or oomph if you desire. EM wires (for the most part) are not quite as narrow as Comexim. As for when she gets new styles in, I don't know...

  • @lcl0706, those cookies sound interesting indeed!

    Could you explain what makes you think I am quite narrow & projected?

    I am still figuring out my shape, but I was pretty convinced about the wide set boobs and the average projection.

    My boobs start way under my armpit, really more towards my back than towards the front, which is why I'd classify them as wide set.
    I seem to do well in wide and shallow bras (half cups), but I think I'm not really shallow, it's more that some of my other characteristics (the wide and short roots in combination with a little fullness on top) make me do well in shallow bras.

    I notice that the Cleos I own are really on the narrow and projected side for me, I really have to aggressively scoop my boobs in from the side to make them work. Narrower wires would become uncomfortable, as they would then sit on my boob tissue on the side. Which is why I am hesitant about the EM bras, and, based on your comment, I am certainly not venturing into Comexim territory any time soon.

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