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I just had this conversation on reddit, I normally don't respond to this kind of messages, just press the "ban" button, but today I felt empowered by some feminist reading and felt like answering. FYI I've uploded TWO pictures of a bra for fit check and nothing else. Was this a good way to handel the situation? I think I'll wait a couple of days asking on reddit because this man made me uncomfortable.

[–]från X skickat för 21 timmar sen
your breasts are gorgeous

[–]till X skickat för 33 minuter sen
I do not know how to answer this. A "thank you" would mean I appreciated it, which, don't get me wrong, I did at first, but it's also (as your alias suggests) rather awkward getting this sort of messages. It's not really a suitable opening line unless it's four a.m. and we're both very drunk. I don't mean to offend you in any way, but you did post a thread for advice on how to stop beeing labled "creepy".
Please don't respond to this or send me further messages unless in a less creepy way. Thanks.

[–]från X skickat för 31 minuter sen
well i mean, it was 4 am for me when I sent that, so does it count?

[–]till AwkwardMusician skickat för 17 minuter sen
Not really. Sending creepy messages to someone you've never met is never a good idea, regardless of time. It just makes you comes across as very unpleasant, with stalker vibes and can often be percieved as a little sexist. Sorry.

[–]från AwkwardMusician skickat för 15 minuter sen
it's only creepy because you don't want it. also i never said i knew where you lived so this is hardly stalker behaviour

[–]till X skickat för 8 minuter sen
But you knew that was probably how I would percieve it, right? If I would have wanted that sort of attention I would definately have posted in another sub, not as fit check in ABTF. I know you never said that you know where I live, or anything like that, but I just tried to explain what sort of vibes that kind of messages send out. You know, trying to help you get rid of that "creep" stamp, by explaining how it makes me feel and hoppfully you'll understand that it's rather inappropriate so that you can pick another subject for your other correspondences.

[–]från X skickat för 7 minuter sen
i had no expectations as to how you would receive it. Also, that post you read was from like 2 years ago. lol.

[–]till X skickat för 3 minuter sen
It's ok, but please don't send this type of message to me again because it makes that old post very relevant.

[–]från X skickat för 2 minuter sen
i won't send you anymore

[–]till X skickat för just nu
Thank you.

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