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Panache » Jasmine Balconnet Bra (6951) » 30G 30:9

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I tried the Jasmine in 32GG at Nordstroms and it was a much closer fit (they didn't have 32G, which would have been ideal) but it was still too itchy for me. I'm currently in the middle of trying a bunch of Freya options; their bands are indeed much stretchier than Panache, though I'm still trying to figure out which shape works best for me- I seem to fall out of half-cups thus far. Unfortunately, the Fantasie Rebecca Molded Spacer had a lot of extra material at the top of the cup so it didn't really work. I'm tentative to order Cleos because so few are neutral colors, but I may in the future. I'm going to try Gorsenia near future. Thank you all for your help!

Original problem

I'm very early in my bra-finding exploration; I was set as 30FF by the ABTF calculator. Currently, my closest-to-fitting bra is the Wacoal Lace Finesse T-Shirt bra in 32G; the band is definitely too big and the cups are too small (quadding) but it's soft, pretty, a nice shade of beige, and I'm used to molded cups. I tried the Panache Envy in 30FF and the cups were noticeably too small for my right side and slightly too small on the left (though the band felt perfect) and there was a lot of wrinkling at the base of the cups (what does that mean?). I tried the Jasmine in 30G (pictured; I'm wearing thin Wacoal liners as well) in hopes of getting less obvious seams. The Jasmine fit much better in the cups but the band seemed much tighter and the wires at the bottom of the cups dug into my chest horribly. I had a large amount of armpit fat. It was also quite itchy everywhere.

I think I'm projected, possibly center full, asymmetrical (larger on the right), slightly splayed, horizontally wide and vertically short roots, and somewhat wide set (like 2.5 fingers wide), with very soft tissue (so quadding is a common problem, which is sad because I like plunges). I have scoliosis and many years of terrible bras have left me with pretty bad shoulder pain, which I'd like to alleviate.
Please save me from my ignorance. I've been trying to compare Bratabase data to find what could work for me but it's really overwhelming. What should I try next? Why was the band so small and painful on the 30G Jasmine? Should I keep trying 30G in other brands and styles or was the small Envy cups an anomaly? Can you recommend some t-shirt bras that might work? I really like skin colored, low profile bras that I can wear with many different shirts, but I also have literally nothing that fits me properly so I'm open to anything. I'm in the US and I'd prefer to purchase through Amazon. Thank you!

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