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Quick reminder about quick reviews
Please, when you get new bras it is perfectly OK to come to the adventures to celebrate the joy, but I ask you to also consider helping Bratabase by not investing your time and effort of pictures/review in the adventures and do it in the proper bra entry. That way you leave Bratabase a bit better than it was when you found it.
Here's a link to the rules about the topic:
http://www.bratabase.com/help/rules/#Do-not-use-the-adventures-if-theres-a-proper-section-for-it
This is important so future/new users don't learn this practice, and remember that if you thought Bratabase was worth joining, it was probably because of the data we have, by using the adventures as a lazy-add-bra it hurts the very feature that brought you in and making it weaker for those that come after you.
Rules - Expected behavior | Bratabase
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Possibly unrelated question: Is there a way to make my bra pictures less public? I am a bit concerned especially with the new “by photo” search. When I entered my size I saw 6 pictures of my chest on the first page. I know they are probably just sorted by date but I still feel a bit exposed now. I also think this feature makes it very easy for someone to batch-download all pictures for a certain size.
I know it is against the idea of bratabase. But it would be nice to be able to adjust who can see certain pictures (for example logged in users or everyone). If that is not possible, would it be OK to add an imgur link to the review with the pictures that I don't feel comfortable showing up everywhere on this site?
And BTW: You are awesome and I really appreciate all the effort you put into this site. And as a fellow database admin I also know the pain when users don't enter information in the intended way.
@aboobaccount
I (like I'm sure many here) understand and share your concern. It can be a bit unsettling to see yourself posted within a simple search. For my general size I was 71 of the 79 photos that show at default setting, and searching the next two tiers up, I am all the photos.
When I first joined, I was mortified with the thought that my body & breasts would be exposed, especially since I have a lot of tattoos that would serve as identifying markers. Then a few of the other members said some things that allowed me to change my perspective, & I was suddenly okay with the idea.
Our breasts in bras are really no different than our breasts in a bikini tops. Just because someone decided to make one okay for outdoors and the other for intimacy should not make us feel any differently about it or our breasts.
Even with the general photo search showing a lot of your photos, no one would know those breasts in those bras are actually your breasts. Even if someone did a mass download, they won't know it's your body they are downloading.
Feeling vulnerable about it only gives power to the pervs who feed on making us feel powerless, and we don't want to allow that, do we?
That being said, always remember that if you are not comfortable with your photos being here, you have the power to delete some or all of them, &/or to choose to upload fewer new ones. You do have the control over your profile, your photos, and most importantly your body. Always remember that.
Hope this helps. :-)
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